Last week a few bloggers (see Wonkette; Marc Cooper; Kaus) noted with a snicker that Grand Ayatollah Sayyid Ali Husaini Sistani in Iraq has a website which, among other things, dispenses rather specific advice on which sex acts are permissable under the Ayatollah's view of Islam.
Two noted examples of the Ayatollah's Dr. Ruth-like pronouncements were the following Q and A's:
ON ANAL INTERCOURSE:
Question: My question is, what does the holy book Quran and prophet Mohammad (pbuh) say about anal sex even if the wife agrees to experience this with her husband?
Answer: As deduced from narration anal sex is permissible; but it is strongly undesirable. Permission is bound to wife’s agreement and consent to anal sex. If she is not consenting, it would be impermissible.
ON ORAL SEX:
Question: I am really sorry that I have to ask this type of Question. But Since I grew up in a western country; I rally don't much about our religion. And I can't ask this Question to my parents due to subject matter. Brother my question is, can we have an oral sex before or after the sexual intercourse or can we have oral sex at all? Is it haram?
Answer: Oral sex act is permissible with the consent of both husband and wife provided that no liquid gets into the mouth.
Admittedly, it is always funny in a fifth-grade kind of way to see serious and scholarly folk talk about the pros and cons of various methods of getting your freak on.
But I think it is worth noting, at a more serious level, a common thread in these two responses. In both cases, Sistani makes clear that consent of the woman is an absolute requirement.
Isn't that a good thing?
And, er, don't these answers --- which boil down to "yup, go ahead and do it as long as both parties agree" --- amount to a fairly open-minded view of sex? How many conservative Christian leaders would go this far in blessing anal and oral sex? (Yes, Sistani seems to have a thing against masturbation, but nobody's perfect).
To be clear: I'm not holding up Sistani as some great savior, or strong liberal voice, or ideal moderate Muslim cleric. I don't know enough about him to make those judgments. But in judging these individual statements, they seem to be pretty darned progressive to me.
As background, I'll share with you that I learned a bit about Sistani from listening to Terry Gros' interview with Juan Cole the other day, which gives a good outline of the differences between Sistani's view of Islam, and that of Muqtada al-Sadr. I won't leap to any huge conclusions based on a single source, but Cole's basic argument is that al-Sadr represents a Khomeni-like devotion to full-blown theocracy, whereas Sistani's view is that clerics should not be involved directly in government. I'll judge both on their actions, but the perspective was useful...